Frank L. Mergy

Franklin Lawrence Mergy, 89, of Kansas City, Kansas-most recently of Nevada, Missouri, passed away on October 25, 2025 at Advent Medical Center in Merriam, KS. Born July 4, 1936, in Hillsdale, Michigan, to Leroy and Augusta (Heide) Mergy, Frank arrived in the world on Independence Day, a fitting beginning for a man whose life would be defined by service, quiet strength, and steadfast generosity. Frank served four years in the United States Marine Corps during the Korean War, rising to the rank of Sergeant. He was awarded the National Defense Service Medal and the Good Conduct Medal-honors that reflected not only his dedication to his country but also the integrity with which he carried himself throughout his life. Following his military service, Frank built a long and accomplished career as a pipefitter, working side-by-side with his twin brother, Fred. The two remained a team until their retirement from U.S. Engineering in 1996. Outside of work, Frank expressed his gifts through craftsmanship. A master knifemaker, carpenter, and all-around creator, he possessed a rare ability to turn raw materials into pieces of beauty and utility. He found joy in simple, meaningful pursuits: fishing and hunting, losing himself in a good James Patterson novel, collecting knives and firearms, watching westerns, and cooking- especially barbeque, which he shared generously. Frank had a heart inclined toward service; he was often found helping at the soup kitchen, giving quietly to those in need, or stepping in wherever an extra hand could make a difference. His steadiness, dry humor, and gentle way of always showing up for people left a mark on everyone who knew him. Frank was preceded in death by his wife, Nelda (Wasson) Mergy, his daughter, Michelle (Mergy) VanDyke, and his brothers William "Bill" Mergy, Leroy "Fred" Mergy, and Edwin "Eddy" Mergy. He is survived by his son, Eric Mergy; his grandchildren (Zak, Ashley, and Christopher) and great-grandchildren; his nieces and nephews; his companion of the home (Rose), and his beloved cat, Sammy, who rarely left his side. Interment with military honors will take place at Leavenworth National Cemetery in Leavenworth, Kansas, on December 18, 2025, at 1:30 PM.

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Frank L. Mergy

July 4, 1936 - October 25, 2025